reserve judgement on whether I think he's gay or not. you know, the question in the TITLE OF THE THREAD YOU ARE POSTING IN?
Why would that even be something to judge? You're making it seem like "WELL... if he is that's awful, but since we don't know, I won't judge him yet." You're coming off like a homophobe and that's something we don't need from a mod in a thread like this.