Not much of a response to the most thought out and heartfelt post I've seen here. I understand your pain and get called that in anonymous neg reps often. Unfortunately the problem is much bigger than that one word. I long for a forum where people speak and treat one another as if they had to look each other in the eye and stand within striking distance of each other. Sometimes I wonder if basic civility exists only because of fear of consequences.
Don’t pick a fight with an old man. If he is too old to fight, he’ll just kill you.