Getting pantsed and being called a male nurse is like hanging out with your boys clowning with each other. Not that big of a deal.
Sure...if they are your boys. If one of my training partners pantsed me and made fun of my profession, I'd pay them back by dripping sweat in their mouth when we rolled next (I'ma sweaty pig and do my best to be considerate generally) or by being a prick right back, then we'd smile, and we'd all go for beers.
If some guy in Quiznos tried to pants me...well, then I'd go to prison for my reaction.
The same action has WAY different levels of "big dealness" depending on WHO did it and what their intent was.