Thanks MC and Hawndo, wish I could say I'm the only one but others have fallen into the same habits after being with him. But as was said, it won't happen again at least. Well....not with him...it's an uphill struggle!
Just stay strong and believe in yourself, you'll get there. Awful to hear a poisonous guy ruin lives like that but the past's maybe his the future is yours. Remember, you've got a rocking set of nutters here any time you need us