Don't take this the wrong way but it's nice to hear this coming from a woman since I have the same view. If a guy accessed a female of something, I wouldn't judge her until I heard all the facts and both sides before I made up my mind.
don't worry about it
domestic abuse is a very serious allegation, and i'd hate to hate on someone only to find out they'd been innocent all along. it's a situation that affects his children too so it isn't something to throw around lightly.
it's a subject i know all too well so i give Trigg no judgement yet.