I haven't. No one in my immediate family has. My fiance hasn't. None of my close friends has. So are we missing out on some basic experience that everyone is supposed to have or are you just spouting a cynical statement to make you feel better for having driven drunk?
Your situation is extraordinarily rare. Smart people, dumb people, middle school graduates, ivy leave graduates, old people, young people.. MANY people drive drunk. Not trashed, but drunk.