I guess having a closet-transgender dad who commit suicide last year might change your mind about my background? And you know what? I loved him the exact same. It just broke my heart he couldn't live life the way he want to.
Trust me I'm the least judgmental person there is.
But if you're a straight male and you talk about how attractive other males are then
say "well not in a gay way", I will be quick to point out that you can't say what you just said and it not be gay.