It also comes down to a Human Rights thing. Fallon has made the necessary strides to be considered a woman, in spite of emotional, psychological and physical trauma/turmoil/heartache. And has earnt the right to be called a woman.
But MC, I know you're a nice guy, this is a touchy area fo sho!
I've known close to 15 T-Girls over the years, and I always show the common courtesey of calling them female...I feel they earnt that right...it ain't an easy road