Having watched the video you can't really tell if they are all clean shots getting through. I do agree with a previous thread that the fight on win record wasn't really in your favour and you could have fought someone with a similar record.
My person opinion is that you have the right frame of mind. Hit the gym and train for being in those positions. Get used to being on your back taking shots, at least that way when it happens in a fight you will feel more comfortable and in familar surroundings.
Keep it up tho fella and never feel like your letting people down. This sport is by far one of the hardest to train and fight for. There isn't many joe publics that would do what we do.