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LL 05-07-2013 05:49 PM

Going through a bit of a strange time here.
 
So believe it or not I actually do other things besides hate on Anderson.

Anyway, as I have come to notice on my two plus years on MMAF, we've all had our different life experiences but I appear to be growing through a wee bit of a moral crisis here and I figured I'd bring my dilemma to my brehs at MMAF, and yes that includes the Silva fans who I troll 24/7.

You may remember about a year ago I posted a thread asking for advice with my ex-girlfriend, incase you don't remember here's basically the gist of it. Met her junior year, we talked all year, and I asked her, we were pretty much on and off for my whole senior year but I developed strong feelings for the girl and legit fell in love with her, not that 'Oh baby you're the best, I love you <3' after one month of dating bullshit, more like 'I wanna marry this broad' type of deal. However she went to college and we kinda drifted but I later realized that she was playing me out but at the time I was blinded by love and she wanted me to take her back.

That relationship really changed my outlook on things, mainly relationships, trust, and girls. I was pretty bummed out by it so for about two years I didn't date or anything like that but around September I figuered might aswell try it so I started talking to this Mexican chick. The Mexican chick says that she loves God and she's real sweet and everything but after talking to her I found out she loves sex and she's kind of a whore, like...cheated on her boyfriend type of a whore. As you can imagine that didn't really lift my spirits up about dating, I looked at as more of a "Who can you really trust type of a deal" anyway the girl constantly goes on and on about how she wants to be his wife and how she loves him so I start thinking '**** dating'.

Anyway, I keep it casual, still talk to the chick, get pictures of her but I don't really have any desire to date her and I kinda wanted to date her. Now, I've started a new job about a month ago and this chick I work with is a lot like the Mexican chick, she's all about God, really nice, really cool but during the first two weeks or so random guys were coming up to her and asking her to give them head and stuff like that, she says she doesn't like creeps and everything like that, so once again, me wanting an actual relationship instead of just sex goes 'Oh, maybe I'd like to date this chick' so I get her number and start texting and then on Saturday she goes 'so honestly u'd **** me?' and I tell her yeah and she starts telling me how she loves sex, she's really good at giving head and all of a sudden I don't really have any desire to date her.

I don't know what it is, I'm going to bang the chick at work because I think she's pretty hot but like I said, any hopes of a relationship just seem to die because I think she's a whore now. Am I just maturing and growing up? Is it 'wrong' to want a real relationship? I really need some advice here because it seems like everytime I find a really good chick she turns out to be some kind of whore and that's not what I'm looking for.

Spite 05-07-2013 06:06 PM

I always find that banging a girl before you get to know her is guaranteed way to lose interest in a woman. At first there is lust and after you bang the lust is gone.

You need to build up a friendship with a woman that ultimately leads to you caring for or loving her, that way after sex the friendship/caring/love is still there.

So I see where your coming from. But you should defo bang the Mexican chick. Why not, think of it as getting some practice in for when you meet that special person.

As good friend of mine used to say... 'Every holes a goal!'

Signed

Uncle Spite

xxpillowxxjp 05-18-2013 03:20 PM

been in the same situations u've been in. If there's no challenge it takes away all my feelings. I honestly wish i lived in a different generation where most women actually had respect for themselves and didnt screw every guy they met

No_Mercy 05-19-2013 02:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Spite (Post 2041706)
I always find that banging a girl before you get to know her is guaranteed way to lose interest in a woman. At first there is lust and after you bang the lust is gone.

You need to build up a friendship with a woman that ultimately leads to you caring for or loving her, that way after sex the friendship/caring/love is still there.

So I see where your coming from. But you should defo bang the Mexican chick. Why not, think of it as getting some practice in for when you meet that special person.

As good friend of mine used to say... 'Every holes a goal!'

Signed

Uncle Spite

Listen to Uncle Spite aka the E head. :) Some sound advice.

Take two of these and we'll see you at London EDC where a plethora of candy girl ravers await in abundance.

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Originally Posted by xxpillowxxjp (Post 2059826)
been in the same situations u've been in. If there's no challenge it takes away all my feelings. I honestly wish i lived in a different generation where most women actually had respect for themselves and didnt screw every guy they met

I probably live in a generation ahead, but girls were the same. To go even further back in time we'd have to ask Oldfan. I think girls were much more conservative in the 30s- 50's. Roaring 20's had the flapper girls, 60's was prolly the most promiscous of all eras, 70's disco + drugs = sexytime, 80's groupie rockstar movement = orgies, and 90's had all the groupies for the gangsta rappers = more orgies. Girls have always been undercover promiscuous. It's just now being revealed. It's a double standard that largely favours males thankfully. The more numbers we hit the more of a player we are and quite the opposite for the females.

I'm going to put it out there. Banging chicks every month is/was fun...then it gets old. You'll see. The emotional connect isn't there after you've had enough one night stands. Everyone I know are getting married, are married, divorced, or have kids already. I'm like the last of the dying breed still representin'...

Stun Gun 05-19-2013 12:43 PM

Wait you don't like Anderson Silva?

MMA-Sportsman 05-20-2013 07:08 AM

Go after the girl you love. Forget everything else. ;)

_CaptainRon 05-21-2013 12:30 AM

It's difficult for me to give someone good advice that I don't know on a personal level, so I just speak from my own experience. You're young, and most girls your age are just looking to enjoy themselves and experiment, which is what I would recommend you do as well. It is much more socially acceptable for females to make public their promiscuity these days, and so much more of it is out there now because of the internet, cell phones, and digital cameras. But if this is such a turnoff for you, just move on to someone else who's at least more discrete about their sexual conquests.

As for knocking out a girl at work, it will eventually create some drama when things turn sour, but if she says she gives great head, go for it. And be sure and tell her you've had better afterwards, and they'll keep on coming.

xxpillowxxjp 05-21-2013 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by _CaptainRon (Post 2064322)
It's difficult for me to give someone good advice that I don't know on a personal level, so I just speak from my own experience. You're young, and most girls your age are just looking to enjoy themselves and experiment, which is what I would recommend you do as well. It is much more socially acceptable for females to make public their promiscuity these days, and so much more of it is out there now because of the internet, cell phones, and digital cameras. But if this is such a turnoff for you, just move on to someone else who's at least more discrete about their sexual conquests.

As for knocking out a girl at work, it will eventually create some drama when things turn sour, but if she says she gives great head, go for it. And be sure and tell her you've had better afterwards, and they'll keep on coming.

Make sure you bust in her mouth too. If she complains just say "oh you don't swallow? Sorry", always works the first time

Spite 05-21-2013 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by xxpillowxxjp (Post 2065154)
Make sure you bust in her mouth too. If she complains just say "oh you don't swallow? Sorry", always works the first time

I like the way you think :thumbsup:

LL 05-24-2013 07:48 AM

Update. Pretty funny actually...

Last night a coworker and my cousin took me to the girl from works house, which is in the ghetto, the actual ghetto too. I go to her apartment for a bit, I hold her for about thirty minutes and then we go upstairs to her room.

Well while we're up there we hear a conversation outside with this black chick trying to gey a couple of dudes to eat her ass. Eventually I lay down and so does she. I hold her hand and we start rubbing each others hand, eventually I kiss her and we full on make out and I start fingering her.

So I get up bend her over and begin to **** her for a couple of minutes until we hear a knock on her door, ITS THE BABY DADDY BREHS!!! So she goes 'he's here to get his shit but I know he'll wanna stay'

So I snuck through the backdoor, in the ghetto with the baby daddy at the front door. Afterwards I went to McDonald's and then we went to Walmart where I took a victory lap around toys which is her department.

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