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post #1 of 20 (permalink) Old 04-23-2007, 11:00 PM Thread Starter
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Did I do the right thing?

Alittle background first, ok so I have known this girl for a few years and we have never been romanticaly interested in eachother but more like a brother and sister. She has been dating this asshole guy for about 6 months now and he is nothing but a total **** to her. So today I hear him talking to his friends about how he is "tapping that" and all this other wigger talk bullsh!t and I did what any "brother" would do.

I beat the living hell out of him.

After I am done I see her in the hall and try to say hey and she turns her head down and looks away. I try to talk to her but she just refuses to even act like I exist. I talked to one of her friends and she said that my friend was very dissapointed in me.

I do not see what I did wrong. My question to you is, what would you have done?



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post #2 of 20 (permalink) Old 04-23-2007, 11:26 PM
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Well I think if someone was talking bad about someone I cared about I would definitely confront them. But hindsight is 20/20. She obviously cares enough about him to maybe ignore the things he says or maybe she doesn't even know the things he's said behind her back! You should have talked to her first.

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Most women, I don't mean all, when it comes to this are stupid. The refuse to see what's good for them and "Hope" the person they're with will change one day because they love them SoooOOOoooOOO much. Meh. It's like those women who say "He only hits me because he loves me!" It's stupid.

I think you did the right thing, he sounds like he had it coming. Another arrogant Pr*ck. If she don't talk to you no more, her loss. You only did what you felt was right. Those kind of people usually never change, they'll be like that forever but of course you know women just love Arseholes.


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I could see where I over-reacted but this is not the first time he has said something like this, but hopefully it will be the last. I tried to talk to her a few minutes ago but she said she did not want to hear it and hung up. I guess there is not much I can do except to wait it out.



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Beat him up again. She probably thought it was a fluke.
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all women do not love assh0les...this girl sounds kinda like a doormat. most of us eventually wake up and find a guy who will be good to us.

possibly it was overkill to beat the dude up, however if he has a pattern of publicly disrespecting women, and you stood up for her, maybe it'll be a wake up call for this guy?????

for some reason she's putting up with him for now, probably because (like someone else accurately said on here) she hopes he'll change b/c she loves him soooooooo much. (that will not be happening.)

give her her space for now. she knows she's in a bad situation but she needs time to think. in the meantime make sure the other guy knows you (and your friends possibly) are watching him.
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all women do not love assh0les...this girl sounds kinda like a doormat. most of us eventually wake up and find a guy who will be good to us.

possibly it was overkill to beat the dude up, however if he has a pattern of publicly disrespecting women, and you stood up for her, maybe it'll be a wake up call for this guy?????

for some reason she's putting up with him for now, probably because (like someone else accurately said on here) she hopes he'll change b/c she loves him soooooooo much. (that will not be happening.)

give her her space for now. she knows she's in a bad situation but she needs time to think. in the meantime make sure the other guy knows you (and your friends possibly) are watching him.
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Fighting, regardles of the reason why, rarely impresses females. They look down on it as ignorant. I think you over reacted by beating him up. Love is blind, she sees what she wants in him and might not notice the things you do. You should of talked to her first or instead of beating the other guy up, make him look stupid. Give it time with her because even if you tell her what happen, she will still see him as being right and you wrong.


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my expierance is girls usually get upset when u meddle in thier business, you probably put her in a tough spot and she is mad about that as well.

I have a female friend who I think of as a sister, so I understand how you felt. You probably acted more on emotion, and did'nt think rationally.

if she does'nt get over it then maybe she is not such a good friend.


How bad did you beat him up?

How much stronger are u than him? (is he a weakling?)

Is there more to the story? (have you proffessed love for her in the past, if so, she might see it as an act of jealousy rather than bieng protective.)
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most def that would be the wrong thing to do.


you cant go beating people up just cuz they are talking about there girlfriend,w/e way they are talking about there relationship it is after all there relationship.


It was her choice to date him, if she likes assholes that talk about tapping her then i guess thats her problem.


and btw if you just waked up and beat the shit out of him he coudlent be tough enough to really challenge you.

I hope you didnt hurt him just because you didnt like him and you could.

because i see allot of people do thigns to other people that they wouldent do if they where tough.

..........maybe going up and grabbing his b!tch ass and giving him a few backhands in front of his homie's would have served better for you instead.
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