Glad some of you guys have sorted your "Love Life" from the advice given, if you want a TITANIC problem to sort out come see me
, single forever (had a few school gf's) thats about it. I just cant seem to get on with girls, as someone said earlier i think i give off some intimidation towards them, im not socially brilliant where lying through your teeth or being the loudest pleb at the party seems to net you the girls these days. Ive also been called weird etc by doing/saying totally normal things even when related to the current conversation!. I wouldn't say im the most disgusting looking either, unfortunately i get told im handsome by everyone and anyone who was born pre 1960 when i don't look for the compliments.
Given the brilliant confidence boost ive been given off girls in the past from what has been listed to far, i have zero effort or ability to go up to a girl and strike a conversation. I probably need to change a hell of alot about myself to be anywhere near successful unfortunately. I wonder if its a combination of my dress sense, my music taste and for some reason a weird/intimidating vibe i put out. I have recently cut my hair after a 3 year bet with my bro to grow my hair which i won and seem to be getting more talk from them at work, but thats the last place i want to start a relationship as-well.. Unfortunately i think this is something im going to have to get used to, cause im not going to start lying about what i listen to or to myself on how i dress to impress other people. They say theres someone out there for everyone which is probably true but im obviously looking in the wrong place, i should start from the bottom of hell and work my way up.
I think the only way to be successful is if a girl comes up to me, and ive been stared out by girls alot at clubs etc, but amounts to nothing, because as ive previously tried with girls who stare me out before im wasting my time and its still in tradition i guess that a guy has to go up to a girl, just like a girl should binge drink harder than me 51 times more than me a year, oh how i love this planet. born in the wrong era!!
edit: I also dont have many friends wich i chose not to since i think there more hassle than they're worth. Which these days is a big no no in the dating world apparently, think i need to be a facebook whore to be classed as normal these days.
music 90's grunge/metal
dont dress like a goth, wear lipstick or any of that, but i dont wear tight jeans and yachtey shoes either