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OU 10-24-2013 12:20 PM

Gay son vs Daughter in Porn
 
I know this could be a risky thread, but I heard something interesting on the radio yesterday. This question was asked to NBA players in the locker room and 77% said they would rather have a daughter in porn then have a gay son.
I thought at first the number was skewed due to the "locker room mentality". But I have been surprised by the answers I have gotten from people in person. I would have thought if this question was posed to the public the number would be reversed. Now I'm not so sure.
Personally for me it's not even a debate, I'd much rather have a gay son. But sexual preference isn't something I really care too much about so it's easy for me. A gay son can still be a successful person. I don't think I could handle a daughter in porn.

HexRei 10-24-2013 12:21 PM

No preference either way for me. As long as they're happy with their lives.

OU 10-24-2013 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by HexRei (Post 2360657)
No preference either way for me. As long as they're happy with their lives.

Probably the best answer. One I have not got when asking people in person. I'm hoping this thread can stay on track because I have found the answers I have received to be very interesting.

M.C 10-24-2013 12:47 PM

Neither, I don't want kids at all.

However, if I had to choose I'm with Hex, don't have a preference either way, people are who they are and do what they want to do. The key is to not impose your own lifestyle on others and to be happy. If you are not harming/imposing yourself on others and making choices that you yourself approve of, then by all means.

Killz 10-24-2013 12:51 PM

I've got a son and a daughter. I'd rather my son was gay than my daughter in porn.

There's no shame in being gay, where as personally I couldn't say I feel the same way for having a daughter as a porn star... It's certainly not something I'd want my daughter involved in.

GDPofDRB 10-24-2013 12:52 PM

Gay son wouldn't bother me much, daughter in porn would haunt me though I think.

Toxic 10-24-2013 12:54 PM

Gay son all the way, I mean the depressing thought about that would be knowing the difficulty and prejudice they will have to go through the daughter in porn basically means you F***ed up a a parent and that frankly your child is broken mentally emotionally and spiritually. What ever a daughter has to go through to get her interested in doing porn is likely much more trying that what the gay kid goes through.

oldfan 10-24-2013 01:00 PM

I'd be interested to know the parental status of the people answering. I find it hard to imagine that many of them are fathers.

As the father of girls I would love to have a son too. period.

also as the father of girls the other option is not something I want to contemplate. EVER.

I have one job in life.


OU 10-24-2013 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Killz (Post 2360705)
I've got a son and a daughter. I'd rather my son was gay than my daughter in porn.

There's no shame in being gay, where as personally I couldn't say I feel the same way for having a daughter as a porn star... It's certainly not something I'd want my daughter involved in.

I would think this right here would be a big factor in how people answer. I think people with a daughter, even if they also have a son, would be less likely to choose porn.
Also I'm sure if the question was asked to women the answer would be overwhelming gay son. But with men, at least from I have noticed by asking people in person, I have been surprised by the number of people that either can't choose or choose daughter in porn.

M.C 10-24-2013 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Toxic (Post 2360745)
Gay son all the way, I mean the depressing thought about that would be knowing the difficulty and prejudice they will have to go through the daughter in porn basically means you F***ed up a a parent and that frankly your child is broken mentally emotionally and spiritually. What ever a daughter has to go through to get her interested in doing porn is likely much more trying that what the gay kid goes through.

A common misconception. There are many women in porn because they actually enjoy the work and had great upbringings. Porn is a work industry, not that different than any other. Many of them have perfectly happy, stable, mentally sound and enjoyable lives doing that type of work, and many have perfectly stable and happy relationships with their parents.

There are horror stories with porn and some women get into it for all the wrong reasons, but the question wasn't "your daughter doing porn because of an awful abusive childhood", it was just doing porn, of which many women do it because they want to and have perfectly happy/stable lives doing so.


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