Originally Posted by Damone
I'm just as confused. I did the whole "I don't think I'm ready to take care of a child right now. I'm 25, still young and I want some time to think this over." She gave me kisses and told me that she doesn't want me to go.
We used to fight daily. She has told me that her ex was cuter than I am. Her friends are awful, as her friends husband told me he'd kill me if I came over to his house. The thing is, I did absolutely nothing to him. I don't even talk about him. This makes me wonder what she said about me after we briefly broke up. She sold my school books without permission, gave my clothes away and bad mouthed me to her school friends. She took care of the shirt and books, though. The break up is something I don't want to talk about. Let's just say that she got mad that I went out to eat with my little brother (Who was flying to London the next day).
This is one dysfunctional relationship.
Wow, dude... You need to get out of this situation. This will give you and her the chance to find someone better for both of you. From an outside point of view, it seems like she's using you for something.
If her friends threaten you, that's a sure sign she's talking crap on you anyway. Get out of the situation -- before you have to knock her friend's husband out.