Seriously, I would'nt try to talk to her as she will prob try to convince you to work it out only to have the root emotions come back to the surface and that will have only caused everyone more pain....
This happens all the time. I have tried to break up with her I don't know how many times. I tried it all: "It's not you, it's me" "Maybe we should see other people" "We are just different." She always tries to hug me, kiss me and tell me that she loves me and that she's sorry for everything. It all comes back to me trying to make it work, but only for it to be all worthless efforts. I like to just sit back, chill and do my thing. She always wants to be with me and do stuff with me. I know, she loves me, she's IN love with me, but I need space at times.
There's also this girl, who is friends with my sister, who really likes me and she loves MMA. She calls BJ Penn "Her island prince." She plays the UFC game on X Box with me (Something I never play anymore
). I regret just giving it time with her when I broke up with my current girlfriend for a very brief period of time (Why did I text my current "happy birthday" when we were separated?).
She even tells her son that I'm his "Daddy." Awkward situation I'm in.
I want to hear the truth, not what I want to hear.
Yea bro its the 6 month rule. You find someone awesome, they are the one omg they are the one etc, your brain dumps the shit out of chemicals in your brain when you interact with this person. Going on 6 months your brain gets less crazy and you go back to the person who is really you. It is after that mark with which relationships will be made or broken depending on how much chemistry/compatibility there ever really was. A biological response to help give us a nudge to procreate and move on, but since we're more intelligent than animals we can say "**** you" to our brains/biology/nature and have monogamy. In my opinion, it would be better to break it off. But **** me, its your life, good luck man
I really hate the "6 month rule." I really, really do.
I mean, my girlfriend can cook a mean meal, so that's cool. she also does my laundry, but I end up buying diapers, formula, milk (Which is disgusting when spat up) and other baby stuff.