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post #31 of 110 (permalink) Old 07-02-2009, 01:46 AM
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There is only really one option here, dump her ass and if possible sleep with a few of her freinds just to throw some salt in the wound. Dont waste time trying to make shit work or playing any mind f*** games its just a waste of time and energy and she has made it clear what shit means to her.
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This women is unlikely to be co-operative toward your visitation rights. Sorry to break it to you.

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This women is unlikely to be co-operative toward your visitation rights. Sorry to break it to you.
If it's his crib and she leaves, with this evidence he'll probably get the kid.


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Not a single update from the original poster........TraMai.....Hope your not in jail kid......
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If it's his crib and she leaves, with this evidence he'll probably get the kid.
At the very least he'll be able to get liberal visitation.


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ON THE REAL: This to me represents how sad our people overall have become.....the ability to not trust one who you have produced another life with is beyond me. i do not have a child and I am not married i was close once but I am totally scared to get married and 100% give myself to some one that ma just leave me for some one they are more atttracted to....

I live in Coconut Creek florida which is way close to South beach and its all image there are so many fake people down there it just seems to me the further our society goes along those values our parent and their parents before them were raised with are not there nor are they instilled as much......

These pre-nup's....If you need a prenup i got news for you.....you arent ready to marry that person cuz you dont really trust them, as i have gotten older i have learned people will do things out of necessity sometimes all the way up and including marraige and kids.......why has the values of our society dropped like this????

To me this is an example of that and I truely feel TraMai pain because the situation sucks.....sorry brother adn i hpe you do the smart thing which is walk away and take the kids with you. Document her bullshit for the court system and video tape her if you can and from there you will have a valid case to keep your children and also move on and find some one else......
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ON THE REAL: This to me represents how sad our people overall have become.....the ability to not trust one who you have produced another life with is beyond me. i do not have a child and I am not married i was close once but I am totally scared to get married and 100% give myself to some one that ma just leave me for some one they are more atttracted to....

I live in Coconut Creek florida which is way close to South beach and its all image there are so many fake people down there it just seems to me the further our society goes along those values our parent and their parents before them were raised with are not there nor are they instilled as much......

These pre-nup's....If you need a prenup i got news for you.....you arent ready to marry that person cuz you dont really trust them, as i have gotten older i have learned people will do things out of necessity sometimes all the way up and including marraige and kids.......why has the values of our society dropped like this????

To me this is an example of that and I truely feel TraMai pain because the situation sucks.....sorry brother adn i hpe you do the smart thing which is walk away and take the kids with you. Document her bullshit for the court system and video tape her if you can and from there you will have a valid case to keep your children and also move on and find some one else......
He will absolutely not get sole custody of the kid(s). There is no way a healthy mother will ever be denied rights to her child. Our justice system has ranked the mother more important then the father of children time and time again. He may get 50% custody given her indiscretions, but also they have little to nothing to do with her ability to be a mother only a trusted significant other. It is not like she is going to go be a mom to someone else's kid because she doesn't love hers anymore.

But the pre-nup thing I kind of agree with but at the same time, the other person should have no problem signing it if they truly want to be with the other person anyway.

Our society has become very short-sighted and lacks the ability to think about the long-term consequences of many of their actions. You can see it from individuals all the way up to political bodies. We do whatever we can to get what we want right now without regard to what may happen down the road. Only complete and utter realization of wrongdoing will change that. Which usually comes with age and experience.

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The parent with primary custody can easily make it nearly impossible for the other parent to see their kid with little repurcussions

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The parent with primary custody can easily make it nearly impossible for the other parent to see their kid with little repurcussions
True, depending on the state. CA and NY, for example, tend to sympathize a little more with dads.


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Is it your kid or her's/ your's from a previous relationship?

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