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Old 07-09-2010, 03:49 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Not all women are the way your wife is. I will concede to the fact that women are more emotional than men. That is just the way we are. But I will not paint each woman with the same brush if I were you.

I for one believe in giving a man freedom, respect and to even spoil him if I can.

Women might be emotional and complicated, but it is the little things in life that makes us more appreciative towards men. We want to feel special, loved and respected. If we do, we will give double back in return. Or at least that is how I am.

Maybe you should make your wife feel special again. Make her remember the reasons for marrying you in the first place. And I don't say you have to buy her something to enable you to buy something. Just treat her to something you know she will like. Maybe a massage or pay for her to let her hair get done or whatever she fancies. Maybe she will then bitch less about the things you want.

Please don't take this the wrong way. You might have done all of this already. I am just making suggestions.
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Old 07-09-2010, 03:53 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Only if she did it BEFORE she started giving problems. You have to actually urn that kind of special treatment. And you can also only expect that if you do the same for her. A relationship comes from both sides and it is about two people's needs, not only the man's needs.
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Old 07-09-2010, 04:22 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I was seeing a girl for about 14 months, long distance about a 5 hour drive, in a town without very much public transportation. i dont drive anymore so she was making most of the trips once a month or so which was great of her to do, i tried to do my side of things by paying for stuff while she was down here.

she dumped me about three weeks ago, saying I was just didnt care enough, didnt put in effort, etc. we argue about it a little and its getting ugly so i just ask her straight up if she wants to actually try to work on this or if she is simply done with it, as she had been saying so far. she confirmed that it was over and she doesnt want to try to work things out. i say ok and we talk a little more, much more amicably and it seemed like a peaceful breakup.

less than a week later she's telling me how much she regrets that decision, how she was freaking out over it, so she comes down to visit again and we have a great time. and now here we are, another week and a half later and she's freaking out and telling me an insensitive ass (that's a quote) because i tagged someone in my facebook pics that wasn't her, when in fact i dont even use the tag feature, i was just trying it cause i was curious about how good it was at detecting faces. and we aren't even together anymore!
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Old 07-09-2010, 04:33 PM   #14 (permalink)
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They act that way because they can. They have half the money and all the pu55y. What are we gonna do?
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Old 07-09-2010, 04:52 PM   #15 (permalink)
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It's funny that all the guys on here say they will never get married because it's just a piece of paper. Good luck with that. You don't understand that women want to get married and dream of that fairytale wedding at an early age. They play house, play with toy dolls etc. Almost all of them want to get married so you get attached and they start pressuring to get married.

If I could go back and do it over I would def. still marry my wife. We have an amazing 2 year old boy and we are truly a family. When you get married though your decisions effect more than just yourself. This is why she gets mad when I buy things. I can see her point but I also want my toys.

That being said, she agreed to let me buy the bike it just take a little negociating on my side. The good thing is that I work in sales so I negociate all the time so I usually win. HAHA
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Not all women are the way your wife is. I will concede to the fact that women are more emotional than men. That is just the way we are. But I will not paint each woman with the same brush if I were you.

I for one believe in giving a man freedom, respect and to even spoil him if I can.

Women might be emotional and complicated, but it is the little things in life that makes us more appreciative towards men. We want to feel special, loved and respected. If we do, we will give double back in return. Or at least that is how I am.

Maybe you should make your wife feel special again. Make her remember the reasons for marrying you in the first place. And I don't say you have to buy her something to enable you to buy something. Just treat her to something you know she will like. Maybe a massage or pay for her to let her hair get done or whatever she fancies. Maybe she will then bitch less about the things you want.

Please don't take this the wrong way. You might have done all of this already. I am just making suggestions.
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@ brokenshield

Only if she did it BEFORE she started giving problems. You have to actually urn that kind of special treatment. And you can also only expect that if you do the same for her. A relationship comes from both sides and it is about two people's needs, not only the man's needs.
I almost thought my wife had made an account here.

Listen to this lady and IF you chose wisely to begin with, life will be good.
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Old 07-09-2010, 09:00 PM   #17 (permalink)
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The strange thing about it is that if you just do whatever lyou want and buy the bike and do what ever you like they love you even more. Be unpredictable my friend works. Oh ya, and never be too nice to them. They like it when you treat them bad.
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Old 07-10-2010, 01:43 AM   #18 (permalink)
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The strange thing about it is that if you just do whatever lyou want and buy the bike and do what ever you like they love you even more. Be unpredictable my friend works. Oh ya, and never be too nice to them. They like it when you treat them bad.
Don't be surprised if you grow up to be alone. There is a HUGE difference between treating women bad and being firm with them.

No woman I ever talked to before likes being treated badly. No woman will ever like that. You are living in a dream world if you believe nonsense like that.

Many women, including me, likes to have a man that can speak his mind and tell us when we are wrong. I for one will not like a man to worship me. I will not like it to 'control' him. There might be women out there that likes this, but not all of them do. Most of us would prefer to feel equal to the man in every aspect. Just respect us and treat us with dignity, then you might be surprised of what you will get in return.

I am not sure what you mean with 'treat them bad'. Maybe I am overreacting. I have yet to meet a woman who likes to be the physical and/or emotional punching bag of ANY man.
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Don't be surprised if you grow up to be alone. There is a HUGE difference between treating women bad and being firm with them.

No woman I ever talked to before likes being treated badly. No woman will ever like that. You are living in a dream world if you believe nonsense like that.

Many women, including me, likes to have a man that can speak his mind and tell us when we are wrong. I for one will not like a man to worship me. I will not like it to 'control' him. There might be women out there that likes this, but not all of them do. Most of us would prefer to feel equal to the man in every aspect. Just respect us and treat us with dignity, then you might be surprised of what you will get in return.

I am not sure what you mean with 'treat them bad'. Maybe I am overreacting. I have yet to meet a woman who likes to be the physical and/or emotional punching bag of ANY man.
I couldn't tell you how many females I've known to say the exact same thing, and end up with some guy that emotionally beats them down all the time.

As far as I'm concerned, the 'good girls like bad boys' theory still holds firm.
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Old 07-10-2010, 02:30 AM   #20 (permalink)
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I couldn't tell you how many females I've known to say the exact same thing, and end up with some guy that emotionally beats them down all the time.

As far as I'm concerned, the 'good girls like bad boys' theory still holds firm.
It is a 'theory' because so many women are insecure about themselves. There are many women out there that are afraid to be alone. They are in some way dependent on a man, even if that man is abusive. Many of them are financially dependent and have no else to go, or that is what they believe. So they return to the men who abuse them. Many are afraid of the men who abuse them. Afraid that they will be killed if they do not comply with his needs and demands.

Insecurity and the fear of not being able to survive alone can lead women to even face abuse and later on even accept that they are just the emotional/physical punching bag of all men. They believe that is what they are here for. It is the purpose for their existence.

I usually feel sorry for women like that. To change their mind and to tell them there is hope in finding someone who will respect them and treat them with dignity is a difficult task. They are simply too afraid. Women are also afraid of being alone. I am alone, and it scares me to think I might grow old alone. What counts in my favor is the fact that I do not need to be financially dependent on any man. Many women do not have that luxury and therefor take the option to stay with abusive men.

It is easy to get to the conclusion you got to. If you however consider the circumstances around the decisions these women you know have made it, then the 'theory' might be debunked.
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