"defend himself"? only the woman and her guyfriend said he let it continue, which of course they would if they were trying to contest the case. doesn't seem the alleged victim has indicated either way at least to the writers of the article, but i doubt he would have won in court if he let her continue until he nutted.
"defend himself" - i didn't reffer to this situation, but in general. A man can defend himself in 99% of the cases. A woman can't.
So, lets look at it from the gender flipside since you already brought it up- if a woman woke to a non-boyfriend/spouse man surprising her with his penis in her, wouldn't she probably call it **** even if the penis was only in there briefly?
Yes definitely. That's ****.
This case was about oral sex, but i believe it can be considered sexual molesting, probably **** also.
About this case, we don't know all the circumstances, everything that happened in that place. From what i'vre read, it was a party: most definitely it involved alcohol, wasted people, flirting...party stuff. Who the hell knows what really happened in that place?
But whatever way you put it, there will always be people who will love this kind of stuff happening to them and those who will not.
Like i've said in my previous post: some have high moral standards and a conscience. Others don't.