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Old 10-11-2010, 08:35 PM   #21 (permalink)
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You see guys like us don't put up with shit like this and we arnt afraid if someone takes it too far we knock their f###ing head off. However as I said the bullies prey on the weak and people they know won't stick up for themselves. These people are afraid won't and can't stand up for themselves. Then they get hopeless and sometimes convinced that what the others are saying are true.

People talk how you need to take up for this guy or defend them. But when the big brother is away the bullies will play. The only solution is to teach the kids to stick up for themselves. Get them in the gym get them to gain some self-confidence.
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Old 10-11-2010, 08:37 PM   #22 (permalink)
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I was 5'11" 160 lbs and never had a problem withanybody messing with me mainly because the way I carried myself. If somebody messed with me I went after them ...which wasnt to often because it was a small school. I knda look down on taking your own life. There is always another way. I think almost everybody has had some form of those thoughts and only the weak or imbalenced go through with it......or the ppl looking for attetion.......Sorry if I stick a nerve.......Now as far as bullies.....I went after bullies if I saw it happening...I couldnt stand it...I was a dick in school sometimes but only to ppl who thought they were better than everybody else
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when i was 14 i was getting picked on quite a bit by this guy who was twice my size and 17 years old. i stood up for myself one day and he kicked my ass, only person to ever kick my ass in a fight (not the only fight ive lost, but hes the only one to beat me down). The next day he said something to me in the locker room, I grab my football helmet and beat him unconscious into one of the lockers with it. That was the last day I played football and the last day anyone in my school ****ed with me. Kinda like that one quote about nickey from casino:

"No matter how big a guy might be, Nicky would take him on. You beat Nicky with fists, he comes back with a bat. You beat him with a knife, he comes back with a gun. And if you beat him with a gun, you better kill him, because he'll keep comin' back and back until one of you is dead. "

I've never been the kind of person you could walk on. Much less kill myself over it, I'd rather go and kill them over it.
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Old 10-12-2010, 01:09 AM   #24 (permalink)

 
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Most of you should consider yourself lucky that you never really went down that path. Until you have been to that dark down place where you really think ending it all or going columbine is the only option then don't judge. I considered both at one point. Its hard being a kid things get better but you don't know that then it just looks like the end will never come. If you have never been there its a feeling of dread where your almost physically ill from worrying about life. Its not a pretty place to be mentally.
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Old 10-12-2010, 02:28 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Sad but true. One of teachers I had in high school told me a story once of how his big brother was getting bullied by some kids in the neighborhood my teach being five back then one day just grabbed a 2x4 and walked over to the kid and smacked him across the face with it which koed him and walked off. Said his brother never got picked on agin.

Once humiliated they stop as u said.

I had the exact same experience. Except my f***** up, sadistic, older half brother never forgave me for it.

He was the weird kid that everyone his age picked on, he came home and took it out on me. For years I lived in constant fear of him with good reason. I was terrified when my parents would leave and put him in charge. I got all of my bullying and torment at home. One day I had enough. I was 13 he was 19. My parents were out of town, he was asleep and I knew what to expect when he woke. So I woke him up by spraying bug spray in his eyes and beat him with a baseball bat. I beat him through the house, through the yard and broke the windows out of his car as he drove away. He drove himself to the hospital and never came back home to live. I wish I had done it years sooner. He's in prison somewhere today and I sincerely hope I never see him again.

By the time I got to high school I was pre-bullied. There was nobody there as scary as the guy I already made scream like a girl.
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Old 10-12-2010, 03:22 AM   #26 (permalink)
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I had the exact same experience. Except my f***** up, sadistic, older half brother never forgave me for it.

He was the weird kid that everyone his age picked on, he came home and took it out on me. For years I lived in constant fear of him with good reason. I was terrified when my parents would leave and put him in charge. I got all of my bullying and torment at home. One day I had enough. I was 13 he was 19. My parents were out of town, he was asleep and I knew what to expect when he woke. So I woke him up by spraying bug spray in his eyes and beat him with a baseball bat. I beat him through the house, through the yard and broke the windows out of his car as he drove away. He drove himself to the hospital and never came back home to live. I wish I had done it years sooner. He's in prison somewhere today and I sincerely hope I never see him again.

By the time I got to high school I was pre-bullied. There was nobody there as scary as the guy I already made scream like a girl.
jesus, lucky i dont have the crap you guys had, i've only be attempted to be bullied by, and the two guys who tried that didnt try it ever again after i fought them, ironically this was before i did mma and when i punched like a rtard, still worked though
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Old 10-12-2010, 04:58 PM   #27 (permalink)
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There used to be some guys that bullied my younger brother 20+ years ago when he was in high school. Since I wasn't around at that time, I couldn't handle it and my brother is VERY passive. He just doesn't like to fight. Last weekend my brother came with me to a amatuer MMA fight and 2 of those guys were there but in a higher weight class, I asked the promoter to let me fight in that class and I'd fight both guys with a break between. He allowed it and I beat those guys until they were in tears, it wasn't just just punches and kicks, I was using every submission I could get and before they would tap, I'd let it go and move to another just to punish them until the ref called the fight.

I hate bullies and I've told my kids, "mom and I will NEVER be mad at you for fighting if your standing up for yourself or a friend but there will be hell to pay if we find out that you didn't stand up for yourselves or your weaker friend(s)"
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Old 10-12-2010, 11:15 PM   #28 (permalink)
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I think I have a good story for this thread, happened to me last year.

So it starts right after my ex breaks up with me, and her best friend breaks up with this guy named Eric. the whole little high school clique we had going splits up, 3 guys (including eric) go with her, everyone else stays with me.

So, a couple weeks later, I start dating my ex's best friend (who I'm currently still with, today makes 9 months together), and this just royally pisses off my ex and her buddies, so now and again I hear them talking shit about me, whatever. Petty stuff. It really got to my girlfriend though, the four of them used to be her best friends and now they bullied her and all sorts of bullshit.

It gets bad one night when we're at some after school thing, and Eric walks up to my girlfriend and starts talking to her, acting like her friend and all that shit.

Now something you should know, my girlfriend has a stomach condition that makes her stomach really sensitive, and if you poke it, push it too hard or anything its excruciating to her.

So back to that night, that kid eric is talking to her and idk what they were talking about, but he pretty much walks up to her and jabs her in the stomach, and she's doubled over in pain. He then sees me and kinda gets his ass out of dodge. I was so f***ing pissed I wanted to drive to that kids house and royally mess up his face, but my girlfriend was begging me not to and all that other stuff, so we went home.

The next day, I'm with a bunch of my bros and my girlfriend and I see this kid, my ex and his friend walking by, and I just couldn't resist but I just start shouting at him, calling him all sorts of stuff like *****, bitch, you know the drill. They walk by me and my friends a couple times and dont do anything, but eric gives me the finger a couple times. Tough guy, right?

So as they're walking by a third time, one of my friends stands in the doorway as they're trying to leave (not really blocking them, but slowing them down) and i walk up to him talking shit and pushing him, and he pushes me back. Thats when I just let it all out and threw the dirtiest hook I've ever thrown in my entire life, hitting this kid square on the jaw and he kinda stumbles backwards, drops his hands with these big tears in his eyes.

Right as I'm about to hit him again, a teacher walks in, and takes both of us to the principal. While we're sitting there talking to him, eric is having a hard time holding back tears, which I'm silently enjoying. 5 minutes later, I'm out of the office with a 4 day out of school suspension. On my way out, I see my ex and her posse, and she gives me a nasty look, so I just smile and walk to my girlfriend and we take off.

This guy, from what I hear, had a big welt on his face from where I hit him, and had his mom come to the school make a big fuss about it and he still ended up with 1 day in-school suspension.

Now, he's the one getting shit from kids all around the school for crying like a bitch, and him and his buddies are seriously intimidated whenever I'm within like 10 feet of them.

End of story, hope you enjoyed :P btw, sorry if it's laced with profanity, I get really excited when i tell this story lol
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Old 10-12-2010, 11:36 PM   #29 (permalink)
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My mother and two of my sisters are teachers. Make no mistake, the intelligent ones know who are the real trouble makers and which students are the victim. Unfortunately a large portion of teachers are ignorant and the number is growing daily.

As far as bullies go, I finally punched out a flunkie that had been effin with me in 5th grade for a few weeks and was known as a "wiry poor kid" until I finished school. Just have to take a stand and always try to leave a black eye that they have to explain
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Even though the kids should be punished for the ass-holish behaviour, I will never understang suicide. I guess everyone isn't like me (I'm terribly afraid of death), but to end your life just because some teens said things about you? There are more ways to deal with it.
One of the teens who committed suicide was pushed down the stairs, so it wasn't just words.
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