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Old 01-27-2011, 05:26 PM   #31 (permalink)
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I'm a big thinker as well when it comes to many things. You just need to try and relax some, but not alone. Go out and relax with friends, go do some things. If you don't want to be around women (I'd suggest the titty bar otherwise), then go do other things that keep your mind busy outside of women. Think of things you either have never done, or things you haven't done in a long, long time. Things you did not do with her.

As for a Christian woman, it does not matter what fictional novel someone believes in, they are human. Christians cheat, the majority of Americans are Christian, and the majority of Americans have cheated or have been cheated on.

Just relax my friend, and enjoy everything else that life has to offer for now.
You also have to take into account how repressed Christians are.... they have been denying their biological need to have sex and cut lose for years. There's a good chance they're going to snap at some point.
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Old 01-27-2011, 05:42 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Hey MK, Thats shit news Buddy, Real shit news. I been in the same situation. Only difference was it was my wife we'd been together just over five years but we have 2 kids together. I had no Idea. I only found out because I got a facebook message from her lovers wife. What's worse was she wanted to be with him and wanted to leave but he refused to leave his wife. No regrets or nothing. Not only that but I'd just went onto a debt management scheme because of the marriage costs that she'd insisted we went ahead with only 6 months earlier.

Believe me, I went through absolute hell. The best advice I can give you is to keep busy and stay around friends. Being alone with just your thoughts will just **** you up some more. Keep active and it will get better bro. Take care man!
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All it made me is more bitter to women.... And to think i could get THAT close to someone and be best friends and both wanted to just get married and grow old together can instantly just Screw some other guy...

Bitches are really at my last nerve... And i guess it shows because at work people are scared of me at the moment...
you sound like you have a bit of hate in you. Remember not all girls are bitches and whores. Just her.

You are a bigger man than me. Why if I had been with a girl for 5 years, and she did me that way.. I'd take all the nudes I had of her and put them all over the Internet and annonymously send them to all of her friends and family. He'll I'd probably do a lot worse, but I tend to be a fire breathing dick when I'm mad.

As MC said go out and do all the shit you couldn't do because you were with her.
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Old 01-27-2011, 08:00 PM   #34 (permalink)
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Your gonna be bitter and pissed and yes a girl that you thought you could grow old with and rock in rocking chairs 50 yrs from now on the front porch will cheat.....they're ****ed up, they always want to know they have explored every option and sometimes after being in long relationships they do this to test the waters and see if the grass is greener on the other side....it isnt by the way bt they only foind that out after they **** everything up.....

You are gonna think about her NONE of us can stop that you cannot....but you can stay busy and active and flirt with anything that has a vagina...it helps...
Dude your so right about her, she probably just wanted to check to see how it is being with someone else....

It pisses me off because i never had even a single thought of flirting with girls, alone doing the shit and saying the shit she has.... I really thought i knew her, im not the type that just partys and doesn't talk to his girl, and after 5 years i swear i could win any Newlywed game or any Trivia about that bitches life....

ANd i swear the lottery seemed more realistic then this shit... LOL and ill try to flirt with anything with a va J J but i just kinda feel like slapping bitches...



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I am really sorry to hear that MK

I am a big believer that you can not be together with someone your entire life especially not when you were born in the Western society. We are just not designed to spend our entire life with only one single person. Also Love weakens up A LOT after the years and the realationship becomes boring and just stupid every day life from there on.. 10 maybe even 20 years are probably the max for a relationship in our society today.

However I also believe that you can change that rule by living an open relationship were your partner is allowed to have little advantures here and there. 100% Loyality destroys every realationship.. we need freedom and freedom needs us.


BUT.. like another poster here already mentioned All this does not count anymore if you marry a REAL Asian woman! All the things I said before go out the window and you can be a happy man for the rest of your life, 99% accuracy.

But very important, the emphasizing is on Real Asian woman!



All this however without engagement because my age is 23^^
Lol now how am i going to find a REAL Asian girl when im in California.... My brother married a Asian from the Philippines and shes a crazy bitch lol


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I'm a big thinker as well when it comes to many things. You just need to try and relax some, but not alone. Go out and relax with friends, go do some things. If you don't want to be around women (I'd suggest the titty bar otherwise), then go do other things that keep your mind busy outside of women. Think of things you either have never done, or things you haven't done in a long, long time. Things you did not do with her.

As for a Christian woman, it does not matter what fictional novel someone believes in, they are human. Christians cheat, the majority of Americans are Christian, and the majority of Americans have cheated or have been cheated on.

Just relax my friend, and enjoy everything else that life has to offer for now.
Thanks again for your cares and thoughts MC and I will do shit that i couldn't with her, and like most said she has been texting me ALLLLL day saying how she would do anything to take what she did back, and doesn't want to be alone and whatever, and i just erase, i have nothing to say to this girl and seeing how low she can go....

And when i say a Christian girl i should of stressed the fact i mean a REAL Christian girl... Because your right 80% of the US would claim to be Christian, but mostly Jehovah Witnesses call themselves Christians and so do the Catholic most the time.

A real Christian girl is more of a Jesus freak, but the only place i met Real Strong Christian girls was in Cleveland, Ohio of all places... Those girls have true conviction and truly to the purest extent dont give a crap about other guys other then there husband/boyfriend, WELL NOT ALL obviously but i sure u get the point.

So called Christian girls in California have like zero convictions... Mostly cause there not close enough with God


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You also have to take into account how repressed Christians are.... they have been denying their biological need to have sex and cut lose for years. There's a good chance they're going to snap at some point.
Lol not when there first love is God and there second is there Husband, it seems to work out with amazing percentage


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Hey MK, Thats shit news Buddy, Real shit news. I been in the same situation. Only difference was it was my wife we'd been together just over five years but we have 2 kids together. I had no Idea. I only found out because I got a facebook message from her lovers wife. What's worse was she wanted to be with him and wanted to leave but he refused to leave his wife. No regrets or nothing. Not only that but I'd just went onto a debt management scheme because of the marriage costs that she'd insisted we went ahead with only 6 months earlier.

Believe me, I went through absolute hell. The best advice I can give you is to keep busy and stay around friends. Being alone with just your thoughts will just **** you up some more. Keep active and it will get better bro. Take care man!

Geez man, thanks for sharing your story, that makes my whole shit seem that much smaller.... Thats terrible... Its always good to get advice from someone that has experienced the same pain if not more.

And your right being alone does suck ass, and unfortunately i work the graveyard shift at work 11 pm to 7 am, so im alone with my thoughts for 8 hours... Kinda blows... But ya i try to stay busy and around friends, shit is a big pill to swallow....



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you sound like you have a bit of hate in you. Remember not all girls are bitches and whores. Just her.

You are a bigger man than me. Why if I had been with a girl for 5 years, and she did me that way.. I'd take all the nudes I had of her and put them all over the Internet and annonymously send them to all of her friends and family. He'll I'd probably do a lot worse, but I tend to be a fire breathing dick when I'm mad.

As MC said go out and do all the shit you couldn't do because you were with her.
I think i do have hate in me to a certain extent, im pretty damn bitter... And im finding out with most of my friends opening up that literally all the girls in this ******* town i know are stupid cheating ass bitches...

And mostly the only thing i didnt do while i was with her is flirt and hang out with girls.... Im weak in SO MANY LEVELS but being faithful to my Girl is BY FAR my strongest aspect... Because i think a lot like MC and i know how ******* pointless it would be to throw away all those years and spending my life with someone just for a few moments of lust and dirty joy... Yes it would be fun for a hour until ur done making love and you hate yourself....

I cant stand stupid bitches and im not even going to look, and im going to focus on my health and training and relax my brain from trying to figure out why most woman are stupid cheating ass bitches... I think its the 2% logic in there brain thing....


Oh and THANKS TO EVERYONE who left a post on here, and thank you for caring, i will be here for any of u guys too!
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You"ll meet another chick, she will immediately make you know she is the one and she will have the level of dedication you have.......the fun is going out now your free and finding her....
Thanks buddy, all you guys seriously have giving me a drink of water to swallow this pill, its still deep in my throat but i feel the worst is already over and its only the second day... DEEP BREATHS! lol

And yeah finding a girl like that sounds so refreshing.... Not having to worry about stupid shit like cheating is not life...
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Thanks buddy, all you guys seriously have giving me a drink of water to swallow this pill, its still deep in my throat but i feel the worst is already over and its only the second day... DEEP BREATHS! lol

And yeah finding a girl like that sounds so refreshing.... Not having to worry about stupid shit like cheating is not life...
Where ever your BF or brother are they are slackin....If you were near me we would still be out from the night you found out....
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Where ever your BF or brother are they are slackin....If you were near me we would still be out from the night you found out....
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Dude your so right about her, she probably just wanted to check to see how it is being with someone else....

It pisses me off because i never had even a single thought of flirting with girls, alone doing the shit and saying the shit she has.... I really thought i knew her, im not the type that just partys and doesn't talk to his girl, and after 5 years i swear i could win any Newlywed game or any Trivia about that bitches life....

ANd i swear the lottery seemed more realistic then this shit... LOL and ill try to flirt with anything with a va J J but i just kinda feel like slapping bitches...





Lol now how am i going to find a REAL Asian girl when im in California.... My brother married a Asian from the Philippines and shes a crazy bitch lol




Thanks again for your cares and thoughts MC and I will do shit that i couldn't with her, and like most said she has been texting me ALLLLL day saying how she would do anything to take what she did back, and doesn't want to be alone and whatever, and i just erase, i have nothing to say to this girl and seeing how low she can go....

And when i say a Christian girl i should of stressed the fact i mean a REAL Christian girl... Because your right 80% of the US would claim to be Christian, but mostly Jehovah Witnesses call themselves Christians and so do the Catholic most the time.

A real Christian girl is more of a Jesus freak, but the only place i met Real Strong Christian girls was in Cleveland, Ohio of all places... Those girls have true conviction and truly to the purest extent dont give a crap about other guys other then there husband/boyfriend, WELL NOT ALL obviously but i sure u get the point.

So called Christian girls in California have like zero convictions... Mostly cause there not close enough with God




Lol not when there first love is God and there second is there Husband, it seems to work out with amazing percentage





Geez man, thanks for sharing your story, that makes my whole shit seem that much smaller.... Thats terrible... Its always good to get advice from someone that has experienced the same pain if not more.

And your right being alone does suck ass, and unfortunately i work the graveyard shift at work 11 pm to 7 am, so im alone with my thoughts for 8 hours... Kinda blows... But ya i try to stay busy and around friends, shit is a big pill to swallow....





I think i do have hate in me to a certain extent, im pretty damn bitter... And im finding out with most of my friends opening up that literally all the girls in this ******* town i know are stupid cheating ass bitches...

And mostly the only thing i didnt do while i was with her is flirt and hang out with girls.... Im weak in SO MANY LEVELS but being faithful to my Girl is BY FAR my strongest aspect... Because i think a lot like MC and i know how ******* pointless it would be to throw away all those years and spending my life with someone just for a few moments of lust and dirty joy... Yes it would be fun for a hour until ur done making love and you hate yourself....

I cant stand stupid bitches and im not even going to look, and im going to focus on my health and training and relax my brain from trying to figure out why most woman are stupid cheating ass bitches... I think its the 2% logic in there brain thing....


Oh and THANKS TO EVERYONE who left a post on here, and thank you for caring, i will be here for any of u guys too!
Hey Man, really sorry to hear this happened to you but when I read the above post, I think you are going to be just fine. You are wise beyond your years. Use that in choosing your next relationship. And don't make your next GF pay for the sins of your previous.

That pain recedes each day so hang in there. Some good advice on here about hangin with your buds and going to the gym to clear your head.
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