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post #11 of 13 (permalink) Old 09-29-2011, 04:32 AM Thread Starter
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Yeah allot worse.

Trying to figure this thing out was bugging me so I came up with the idea of going to Facebook and looking at the wall post history of my friend and his soon to be ex-wife.

Based on what i saw posted on their walls if my susspisions are correct well let's just say I may not have known my friend as well as I thought I have.

Now idk WTF to do I have known this guy for over a decade and has always been a great guy and we have helped eachother through hard times but I what I found is true it really changes my perspective. Idk if I should support him and help him rebound from screwing up or condem him for doing such a bad thing.

D@*n-it!!!

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post #12 of 13 (permalink) Old 09-29-2011, 06:34 AM
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Yeah allot worse.

Trying to figure this thing out was bugging me so I came up with the idea of going to Facebook and looking at the wall post history of my friend and his soon to be ex-wife.

Based on what i saw posted on their walls if my susspisions are correct well let's just say I may not have known my friend as well as I thought I have.

Now idk WTF to do I have known this guy for over a decade and has always been a great guy and we have helped eachother through hard times but I what I found is true it really changes my perspective. Idk if I should support him and help him rebound from screwing up or condem him for doing such a bad thing.

D@*n-it!!!
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post #13 of 13 (permalink) Old 10-10-2011, 05:43 AM
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what was the awful thing?

Ask yourself, was it really that awful? Then, ask him why he did it?

If he was your best friend, though you should know that he did it and not need to find out over FB...unless it was murder, but then it shouldn't be posted about.

As for advice...you need to let him know that divorce is normal nowadays...it's just like a legal break-up...that's all and people change...sometimes they change so much they aren't compatible anymore. But what he needs to realize is why aren't they compatible...was it correctable? if so, who stopped working? why did they stop working? when? etc.

These things need to be identified and addressed and corrected. Otherwise, he will experience many relationships like that.

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