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post #1 of 11 (permalink) Old 09-29-2011, 04:55 AM Thread Starter
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More Problems for AF wow this sux

I know its long but please read it need some help with this one.

hey guys as you know right now i am trying to handle my friends divorce however new problems have come up that are much worse and this one I have no Fu#kin clue how to handel.

my father has a friend that he has known for a long time. Growing up they and my mom and the guys wife did allot together and i always hung out with his two daughters and sons. I havent nesacary seen them a whole lot however i know them. Any way one of the daughters my age has fallen for a guy and he is the biggest ass hole i have known and he has some strange hold on her, He treats her like shit for one and two he treats her family like shit as well. They come over to my dads friends house the guy literally orders him and his wife around and insults the man in his own house. When my dads friend confronted the guy his daughter got mad at my dads friend said something to the extent of "What you said was really horrible and really hurt him" This manipulative bastard has some hold on her that is beyond comprehension.

he continues to treat them and daughter horribly. My dads friend has been able to control his temper. I remember my dad said "pound of you for holding your temper, i would have hit the guy." my dads friends said "no you wouldnt..... ok yeah you probably would." I know my dads friend is afraid if he does anything he will lose his daughter.

here is the situation as it stands
I want to beat the ever lovin sh%t out of this guy

her bother literaly stands there and does almost everything he can to get to hit hims so he can fight the guy

and when my dad last talked to his friend my dad said "i am sorry you have to go through this i know its tough." and his friends response was "No, no i am fine everything is ok with me." and that is a bad sign people.


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Man, I am not sure I can help you with this one. I don't like giving this kind of advice because its is not my call on what should happen with other peoples families.

However, one day she will realize he is an ass hat and apologize to all of those he has affected. There is no other way without getting yourself or others into legal problems.

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However, one day she will realize he is an ass hat and apologize to all of those he has affected. There is no other way without getting yourself or others into legal problems.
I hope you are right but I am afraid if and when she does realize it the damage will already be done.

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This seems like an easy, maybe even fun problem to work on. It is apparent that you care for this man and his family but it doesn’t seem that you are particularly close to the girl. you would probably be OK with yourself if she was mad at you for awhile, ...right?

so... put yourself in the line of fire. make yourself an easy target for this bully and let him show his colors. Play him as much as you can to get him to cross the line in front of her and then when you’ve milked it all that you can....... KICK. HIS. ASS.

I mean really kick it. Humiliate him so that he doesn’t want anyone present to ever see him again.

If she hates you ….she hates you. She’ll get over it one day. better that she hate you than her father.




and..... if it doesn’t work..... at least you got to kick his ass.
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This seems like an easy, maybe even fun problem to work on. It is apparent that you care for this man and his family but it doesn’t seem that you are particularly close to the girl. you would probably be OK with yourself if she was mad at you for awhile, ...right?

so... put yourself in the line of fire. make yourself an easy target for this bully and let him show his colors. Play him as much as you can to get him to cross the line in front of her and then when you’ve milked it all that you can....... KICK. HIS. ASS.

I mean really kick it. Humiliate him so that he doesn’t want anyone present to ever see him again.

If she hates you ….she hates you. She’ll get over it one day. better that she hate you than her father.




and..... if it doesn’t work..... at least you got to kick his ass.
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^That's some solid advice.^
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This seems like an easy, maybe even fun problem to work on. It is apparent that you care for this man and his family but it doesn’t seem that you are particularly close to the girl. you would probably be OK with yourself if she was mad at you for awhile, ...right?

so... put yourself in the line of fire. make yourself an easy target for this bully and let him show his colors. Play him as much as you can to get him to cross the line in front of her and then when you’ve milked it all that you can....... KICK. HIS. ASS.

I mean really kick it. Humiliate him so that he doesn’t want anyone present to ever see him again.

If she hates you ….she hates you. She’ll get over it one day. better that she hate you than her father.

and..... if it doesn’t work..... at least you got to kick his ass.
This ^

Walk into some insults etc mix words with the guy and swarm his ass. I wouldnt say a thing
before, just start beating his ass. If the guy is physically intimidating to you, get close but not
aggressive soon as that **** looks away blast him in the face with your strong hand.

Normally I'd say talk it out, see if you can talk the c*** out of the c***. But This guy.. Sounds like it'd be sorted better with a punch.



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actualy thought about that guys however the problem is that something like that would draw her closer to the guy for some reason. Its crazy I know. Probably what would happen if i did that is they would just move to another state or something. The girl has to come to make the choice herself but i dont know how to help her make that choice.

I do care for here. I wouldnt call her a great friend of mine but i know her and she is nice and i dont want anything bad to happen to her.

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How bout this, get drunk with him and stay late enough where you have to crash there. Then, act like you're one of those dudes that likes to pee in the house when drinking. Pee on his bed until he wakes up to wet sheets. He'll be upset and looking for a beat down and you oblige him
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This guy sounds like he'd come back with a AR and wipe out the entire family if he got beat up. So i'd steer clear of violence. Let the girl handle it, if she's not smart enough to see it's a problem, she has to take the fall on her own... I've seen this situation in the news a lot, and it always involves a murder.

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