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post #31 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-10-2011, 06:13 AM
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I've asked for advice before on this site. Whats wrong with it? You know the upside to getting advice from "strangers? They give unbiased advice. If it was so stupid why do people call radio shows to get advice from the show hosts?
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post #32 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-14-2011, 05:33 PM
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This is my opinion.

You two are married. MARRIED. Let me reilliterate, you vowed to one another you would be together forever. Your considering breaking that sacred vow over a job. Yes its his fault, and he has had multiple chances, but there's definitely a reason for his behavior, and no matter what it is, you have to accept him for that reason. You have to stand behind him, no matter what you do. Maybe its just how I was raised, my southern Baptist background, or quite simply, my personal beliefs, but a woman is subject to the man. It's your job to have his back. That doesn't mean you have to agree with everything he does, I'm just saying. Also, this is not a reason for divorce. You would be hurting him so much through that process, even if he is hurting you now, its not anything compared to what you'd be putting him through. And lastly, this is highly disrespectful of your husband and your marriage. You don't ask people if you should get a divorce, I mean seriously, what if he saw this? I would go ape shit if my wife asked people if she should get a divorce. It's just wrong.

Sorry for the rant, this is just my opinion.
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post #33 of 33 (permalink) Old 10-16-2011, 11:48 PM
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It sounds like he has a split personality disorder. I have never heard of any thing this extreme before. How is it possible for him to be such a loving and caring family man, but be such a horrible person at his work place. This doesn't make much sense to me.

No matter how much you hate your job, it is not a reason to be a complete asshole to all of the people you work with. It sounds like in his particular line of work he has a lot of co-workers. So it isn't like he's only working with just a couple or few people who he might have issues with.

He sounds like one of my ex-managers who was a total TWAT to everyone at the work place for no good reason. He some how got a promotion and was transferred to another store. He was punched in the face by three separate members of staff and had to be transferred to yet another store.

As I said, no matter how shitty your life might be, it isn't a valid reason to lash out at other innocent people.
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