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**wafb** · 09-11-2007, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by swpthleg

i have been married to my husband 15 years, together for 16, and I have NEVER fallen in the toilet. It must be my superior GSP-like reflexes.

ppl get married b/c they want to share their life with someone they love. just cause you fight or yr significant other is driving u crazy doesn't mean theentire institution of marriage is worthless.

I had a teacher in college who said that all couple fights are about sex or money?? idk about that but I can tell you that if the husband makes more money the wife gets to be the slave. I don't mind, I just (here's my why) wonder why my dog keeps puking on the rug when im trying to get ready to go to work?!?!?!?

Fighting is good, it means you care enough to be angry at each other. There was this girl I used to work with, we were close and we always fought. She's married and I'm in a relationship and when we parted ways she told me she cared about me a lot,and if things were different we'd probably end up together,lol.

KnockinUout · 09-11-2007, 01:17 PM

Fighting sucks major ass. Small bickers once in a while happen but anything lasting more than 5-10 minutes or has yelling and tense feelings is not worth crap. In most fights if both people just stopped and noticed what they were doing it would be so easy to stop. Its a big no no to get into a screaming contest with your significant other. You just end up with a sore throat and a shameful feeling. Peace is just a puff away.

**Chrisl972** · 09-11-2007, 01:23 PM

Well, I'm moving out from my wife and it's over. I can hear it in her voice and in mine.

Here's my "why" question.

Why is it that some people just give up and then stay around knowing that they aren't in love anymore??

KnockinUout · 09-11-2007, 01:25 PM

Do you mean not in love

**Chrisl972** · 09-11-2007, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by KnockinUout

Do you mean not in love

Yeah, I changed it after I posted ( I always go back and reread)

But yeah, that's exactly what I mean.

KnockinUout · 09-11-2007, 02:46 PM

That does suck but they are just so comfterable with the person that it hurts to much to leave. But when people break up its just in all best interest to not talk to that person until you run into them in the next 10 years or so. Also if you were with someone then broke up and some where in the future you run into each other just say a few words and run. Never go back and date someone you already have unless it was back in high school maybe.

**Chrisl972** · 09-11-2007, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by KnockinUout

That does suck but they are just so comfterable with the person that it hurts to much to leave. But when people break up its just in all best interest to not talk to that person until you run into them in the next 10 years or so. Also if you were with someone then broke up and some where in the future you run into each other just say a few words and run. Never go back and date someone you already have unless it was back in high school maybe.

No worries there, I figure there's around 150,000,000 women in the US and I've only dated half so far!

I've still got room to move. lol

KnockinUout · 09-11-2007, 03:41 PM

Only half???Ive been through them all twice now and am working on 3rds.

**swpthleg** · 09-11-2007, 07:14 PM

If you don't think you have any chance of reconciliation (but i hope you do) get the best advice you can with regard to talking to any children you might have, together or from previous marriages, obviously.

Work can be very healing at a time like this. Work, and MXC

**wafb** · 09-11-2007, 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Chrisl972

Well, I'm moving out from my wife and it's over. I can hear it in her voice and in mine.

Here's my "why" question.

Why is it that some people just give up and then stay around knowing that they aren't in love anymore??

that sucks man, but to answer your question people give up aand stay is because they think they have nowhere else to go.