[americanfighter]

your going to be fine man i have faith in you. Sorry this had to happen to you man but you are going to move on to bigger and better things but for now get out there and enjoy your freedom.

[Hammerlock2.0]

Originally Posted by coldcall420

You"ll meet another chick, she will immediately make you know she is the one and she will have the level of dedication you have.......the fun is going out now your free and finding her....

This, this and this.

My story actually goes on after the she left me for a guy twice my age and I got a place at a university stuff. I still felt like shit, but I had to drop the drowning in self pity a bit... and the drinking. Anyway, in my academic discipline there are a lot of girls... A LOT. In my semester alone there are four guys and about twenty girls. Guess what, there she is. This weekend we're going out alone for the third time. Realistically it's probably not going to last forever, but I plan on making up for the pain before it's over because it will be worth it.

Chin up, eyes open and look forward, buddy!

[nbf79]

Originally Posted by nbf79

Hey MK, Thats shit news Buddy, Real shit news. I been in the same situation. Only difference was it was my wife we'd been together just over five years but we have 2 kids together. I had no Idea. I only found out because I got a facebook message from her lovers wife. What's worse was she wanted to be with him and wanted to leave but he refused to leave his wife. No regrets or nothing. Not only that but I'd just went onto a debt management scheme because of the marriage costs that she'd insisted we went ahead with only 6 months earlier.

Believe me, I went through absolute hell. The best advice I can give you is to keep busy and stay around friends. Being alone with just your thoughts will just **** you up some more. Keep active and it will get better bro. Take care man!

Just realised I threw a cuss word in to that post. I don't normally swear but sometimes you speak from the heart and touchy subjects sometimes bring out potty mouth feelings without you realising it. Sorry andthanks to whoever edited it for me!

MK, the advice on here is great. I pretty much never told anyone out of embarrasment. Only my closest friends found out at first. but telling them was the best thing I did, they really did help me through it.

[Soojooko]

Originally Posted by BobbyCooper

BUT.. like another poster here already mentioned All this does not count anymore if you marry a REAL Asian woman! All the things I said before go out the window and you can be a happy man for the rest of your life, 99% accuracy.

But very important, the emphasizing is on Real Asian woman!

A tad offensive isn't it?... Or am I not getting the joke?

[limba]

Originally Posted by Soojooko

A tad offensive isn't it?... Or am I not getting the joke?

Originally Posted by BobbyCooper

All this does not count anymore if you marry a REAL Asian woman!

I stopped reading after "asian woman" Soojooko.

My mind travelled to a happy place.

[BobbyCooper]

Originally Posted by Soojooko

A tad offensive isn't it?... Or am I not getting the joke?

offensive? Why do you think so? It's more the truth and the difference between our society and theirs. It's very common to cheat on our partner or divorce our marriage a couple of times in life.

People over there life by different rules and different manners. Because they were brought up in a totally different way. I really can't imagine that something like cheating would even cross there mind.. or that they would waste one second even thinking about it. However, if you take them into the Western society, even this would most likely change over the years.

It's just normal for us and I am in no way trying to abhor this or anything like that. But things are different on other parts in the World.

[Soojooko]

Originally Posted by BobbyCooper

offensive? Why do you think so? It's more the truth and the difference between our society and theirs. It's very common to cheat on our partner or divorce our marriage a couple of times in life.

People over there life by different rules and different manners. Because they were brought up in a totally different way. I really can't imagine that something like cheating would even cross there mind.. or that they would waste one second even thinking about it. However, if you take them into the Western society, even this would most likely change over the years.

It's just normal for us and I am in no way trying to abhor this or anything like that. But things are different on other parts in the World.

I completely see your point Bob. English is not your first language, and so your comment can easily be read wrongly. For example, it could be seen to imply that Western women are more likely to cheat than Asian. I dont know if thats true or not, but its an extremely prejudice thing to say. If somebody suggested that in front of my missus, they would get a slap in the mouth.

[BobbyCooper]

Originally Posted by Soojooko

I completely see your point Bob. English is not your first language, and so your comment can easily be read wrongly. For example, it could be seen to imply that Western women are more likely to cheat than Asian. I dont know if thats true or not, but its an extremely prejudice thing to say. If somebody suggested that in front of my missus, they would get a slap in the mouth.

Yea I see your point, but that was the message I was trying to get across. Western women are more likely to cheat than Asian.

Of course, you can never generalize this too every Western Women out there^^ That would be a ridiculous judgement wich only very, very stupid people could make.

But if you put Western on one side and Oriental on the other, the difference in commit adultery or cheating would be gigantic. With an Asian girl, your chances of getting your heart broken are almost none with an Western girl, those chances are a lot higher, especially these days.

Same goes for Men of course!

[Soojooko]

Originally Posted by BobbyCooper

Yea I see your point, but that was the message I was trying to get across. Western women are more likely to cheat than Asian.

Of course, you can never generalize this too every Western Women out there^^ That would be a ridiculous judgement wich only very, very stupid people could make.

But if you put Western on one side and Oriental on the other, the difference in commit adultery or cheating would be gigantic. With an Asian girl, your chances of getting your heart broken are almost none with an Western girl, those chances are a lot higher, especially these days.

Same goes for Men of course!

Ok, firstly theres a big difference between Asian and Oriental. I also have *many* Japanese girl friends and I'm going to put this question to them. Far as I'm aware, there's is absolutely no inclination that Japanese girls aren't just as naughty as Western girls. They might be a bit more private about it... but it goes on just the same.

As for the rest of Asia... well, in some countries *Asian* girls will get stoned to death if they cheat. Maybe that why they generally don't. Here in the UK, we've had stories of Asian fathers *killing* their daughters because they have found out they are seeing some guy they didn't approve of.

In Thailand the girls are fecking crazy! ( At least the ones Ive met )

I could go on...

Its a whole can of worms Bob, and you need to be careful how you word this stuff. You might not mean to offend... but it *is* offensive. I wont say any more. I might be being touchy here. Its not like anybody else said anything about it so I'll assume I'm over reacting.

[BobbyCooper]

Originally Posted by Soojooko

Ok, firstly theres a big difference between Asian and Oriental. I also have *many* Japanese girl friends and I'm going to put this question to them. Far as I'm aware, there's is absolutely no inclination that Japanese girls aren't just as naughty as Western girls. They might be a bit more private about it... but it goes on just the same.

As for the rest of Asia... well, in some countries *Asian* girls will get stoned to death if they cheat. Maybe that why they generally don't. Here in the UK, we've had stories of Asian fathers *killing* their daughters because they have found out they are seeing some guy they didn't approve of.

In Thailand the girls are fecking crazy! ( At least the ones Ive met )

I could go on...

Its a whole can of worms Bob, and you need to be careful how you word this stuff. You might not mean to offend... but it *is* offensive. I wont say any more. I might be being touchy here. Its not like anybody else said anything about it so I'll assume I'm over reacting.

Very true! It wasn't my intention to include countrys like Turkey, Iran, Irak or the enitre Islam.
Some countrys out there are just stupid and verY inhuman in every aspect. Those countrys aren't educated enough.. they life with very wrong manners in my opinion. I strongly criticize those countrys and I many times attack there entire religion, wich is nothing but stupid made up crap in my mind.

I guess I really need to close it in. I agree with you, there are really only a few intelligent Asian countrys out there. I really don't know wich Thai's you have met, but most of them who weren't prostitutes or aren't prostitutes are very, very shy and I can't imagine they would ever cheat on you ever.

It's a difficult topic and very hard to debate I agree. We shouldn't do this I guess.

Let's leave it with my believe!