[The Horticulturist]

I won't be as tactful as Soko.

Bobs, my opinion would be to like, drop this. You are incorrectly assuming a lot of things, and this is one thing could get particularly heated.

This thread is about one thing, and I have PM'd MK with the help that I have to offer. This thread certainly doesn't need to become about the beliefs you might be projecting on 2 cultures that are foreign to you.

[Machida Karate]

My main issue right now is that i made myself very sick... The first day i puked foam and it gave me a sore throat, and that led to a cough, and the Cough has left me with a headache that the slightest sounds makes my head ring...

So im kinda stuck at home right now feeling like shit... And of coarse im cursed with being a big thinker....

I'm trying to apply as much insight from here as possible, but going out right now doesn't seem possible when i cant even take a shower without my head completely killing me....

And i dont want sympathy because all of you have experienced something the same/worse or something similar....

Today has just been rough so far

[BobbyCooper]

Originally Posted by SJ

I won't be as tactful as Soko.

Bobs, my opinion would be to like, drop this. You are incorrectly assuming a lot of things, and this is one thing could get particularly heated.

This thread is about one thing, and I have PM'd MK with the help that I have to offer. This thread certainly doesn't need to become about the beliefs you might be projecting on 2 cultures that are foreign to you.

True! Like I said, I have to keep it as my believe only because there is always a way to argue about this, but we all know wich Asians I am talking about so that other topic is rather pointless anyway.

[coldcall420]

Originally Posted by Soojooko

Ok, firstly theres a big difference between Asian and Oriental. I also have *many* Japanese girl friends and I'm going to put this question to them. Far as I'm aware, there's is absolutely no inclination that Japanese girls aren't just as naughty as Western girls. They might be a bit more private about it... but it goes on just the same.

As for the rest of Asia... well, in some countries *Asian* girls will get stoned to death if they cheat. Maybe that why they generally don't. Here in the UK, we've had stories of Asian fathers *killing* their daughters because they have found out they are seeing some guy they didn't approve of.

In Thailand the girls are fecking crazy! ( At least the ones Ive met )

I could go on...

Its a whole can of worms Bob, and you need to be careful how you word this stuff. You might not mean to offend... but it *is* offensive. I wont say
any more. I might be being touchy here. Its not like anybody else said anything about it so I'll assume I'm over reacting.

Yeah, I think Bobby is trying to refer to the old school customs and culture of Asians and wondered off course. One thing is clear by reading the thread he means no intentional disrespect so no one has to take it personally.

That being said and moving on from that topic.......

MK......at first things are going to be very different you need to have plans for your time like even if that includes just hangin out with a buddy it takes up your free time. I know u have prob heard this but time heals all wounds. What u cannot do is get into a back and forth texting session about feelings, or how could u do this to me. U need to present the image that she ****ed up and you already have rebounded from the entire situation. Your speedy bounce back will drive her crazy and make her feel
Like a total dumb ass.

[Soojooko]

Like I said, English is not Bobs first language. I wasn't trying to imply anything... rather, to correct his wording... for the sake of future conversations we might have about chicks we fancy!

I certainly don't think any offence was meant at all.

[Machida Karate]

Originally Posted by coldcall420

Yeah, I think Bobby is trying to refer to the old school customs and culture of Asians and wondered off course. One thing is clear by reading the thread he means no intentional disrespect so no one has to take it personally.

That being said and moving on from that topic.......

MK......at first things are going to be very different you need to have plans for your time like even if that includes just hangin out with a buddy it takes up your free time. I know u have prob heard this but time heals all wounds. What u cannot do is get into a back and forth texting session about feelings, or how could u do this to me. U need to present the image that she ****ed up and you already have rebounded from the entire situation. Your speedy bounce back will drive her crazy and make her feel
Like a total dumb ass.

LOl geez your scary Coldcall, the second day i sent a text saying JUST THAT.... But i havent text her all day, and for about 12 hours with no text, and she has been texting to the point my memory is full....

But im done like u said so there is no reason to even exchange texts like that... And i know its over, im just so shocked, and i was just curious on what she would say...

But like u said time heals all wounds and its time to move on... Its so hard

[coldcall420]

Everyone back off Bobby, he doesn't translate well sometimes, either way he isn't one to disrespect fellow members it was just a loss in translation....everyone here respects each's respective situations......

[JuggNuttz]

Originally Posted by Machida Karate

My main issue right now is that i made myself very sick... The first day i puked foam and it gave me a sore throat, and that led to a cough, and the Cough has left me with a headache that the slightest sounds makes my head ring...

So im kinda stuck at home right now feeling like shit... And of coarse im cursed with being a big thinker....

I'm trying to apply as much insight from here as possible, but going out right now doesn't seem possible when i cant even take a shower without my head completely killing me....

And i dont want sympathy because all of you have experienced something the same/worse or something similar....

Today has just been rough so far

i had kinda stayed outta this thread, not for lack of wanting to supporta fellow member... but i had been thru something that hurt a whole lot..... i wont get into it, But MK..... just dont do what i did... i went on a ******* bender to end all benders... and well im still on it... it hurts man... it does.... i chose to drink and dwell... dont do that.... thats about the only advice i got...


fell better man and i hope you work this out in a posative way FOR YOU! **** what anyone else thinks... do whats best for you man.

[xeberus]

CC gives great advice, helped me many times.

Also I was offended earlier in the thread. I'm just going to be blunt, Asian chicks are hot. That's just how it is, you can disagree with me and that's fine but please know you are wrong ;P

also I cheated once, well more than once. But the last time it was on someone I loved and that's why it was the last time. If it makes you feel better, she probably feels terrible.

[coldcall420]

Originally Posted by xeberus

CC gives great advice, helped me many times.

Also I was offended earlier in the thread. I'm just going to be blunt, Asian chicks are hot. That's just how it is, you can disagree with me and that's fine but please know you are wrong ;P

also I cheated once, well more than once. But the last time it was on someone I loved and that's why it was the last time. If it makes you feel better, she probably feels terrible.

We def been thru a few situations in our time.....