All Around Nice Guy
Nvm this whole thread got me nothing but trouble. I got 2 infractions for silliness. You cant seem to defend yourself what so ever so i remove all my posts.
Not much of a sense of humor? :dunno:+1 to your Douche scale. How many points you got on there??? A guy like you... i would expect alot.
Ty for the tom-dan joke... could have gone without it but i guess unless you make an ass out of yourself you really wouldn't be happy.
back to talking to people that are actually worth talking to.
You guys cant tell me you didnt have some suspicion about him being gay.? I could be wrong "obviously" which is why i asked seeing what everyone else thinks about it.
The way I see it is it shouldn't matter unless you want to hit on him. I wasn't saying you WERE being racist but I was saying that threads like this have the potential to explode very, very quickly so I was simply saying to keep doing what you're doing and keep it the way it is. It's a very fine line that threads like this travel and the majority of them cross it. To reiterate, I wasn't saying you were doing anything wrong, simply advising that someone might come in and blow a decent discussion all to hell and if someone DOES come in and do something like that then I have to close it if it's not dealt with in a swift way. Was in no way attacking you or anyone in this thread manIl start with, this isnt an insult towards you, but i gotta ask some questions about what you just posted.
Why does it peeve you if people ask if someone is gay?? And how is that the same as racism?? If someone hates "gays" then i could see it being the same as racism. But if someone is just curious about someones sexual preference why is that the same as hating someone based on their ethnicity or skin color?? iv asked people what their ethnicity is before... wouldnt that be closer to being the same thing as asking someone if their gay or not rather then racism??
The only one I could think of is the dude that Herring destroyed in his stare down. Forget his name. Curiosity is okay but all too often it leads to worse things. If Nick wins TUF and then comes out openly I guarantee this board and a whole shit load of MMA sites will filled with hate about it from fans. That's all I'm trying to say is that a lot of times curiosity leads to hate (not necessarily from you).This isnt an attack on you... im just curious. Also yeah i agree.. i hope no one comes in here spewing their hatred or w/e. I have nothing against gay people and it wasnt my intention to put gay people on blast when i made this thread. I more just ask because you dont see gay/feminine dudes in the UFC or MMA for that matter. As far as i know there is only 1 openly gay fighter correct?
Reserve judgment on what? If he's gay he's gay, if he isn't he isn't, it doesn't make a difference either way and he wouldn't be the first gay MMA fighter.I think he has some of the mannerisms that are stereotypically associated with gay guys but life experience has taught me that those mean nothing, and neither do his jokes either. Until I see him kissing his life partner or something I reserve judgement.
Maybe you are gay too and just haven't found out.My wife works with 3 gay dudes. Two of which I NEVER would've known had they not said it to me themselves. The other is pretty flamboyant so he was kind of obvious but the other two are guys I get along with really well and have a lot of the same interests and attitudes as I do.